This is really a way to get all your guests involved in your ceremony and be able to take them with you when you go!
As you guests enter the ceremony area they are given a flat river rock and a variety of colored thins pointed sharpy pens are available. Each person or couple then write their names on one side and a blessing on the other. They hold the stone throughout the ceremony and at the end a bowl is passed around. As they place the blessing in the bowl or vase they send their wishes off for you! After the ceremony you can showcase the rocks and read them occasionally to remember all the people who were there.
Really sweet and the blessings last a life time! One couple of mine laid the stones around the pond at in their back yard!